Heirs of God, Ancestors for the World to Come; Reflections on World Peace Day and the Solemnity of Mary

On January 1, 2023 I had the honor of sharing my reflections with my church community. These are the thoughts-in-process that I offered, leaning heavily on the wisdom of others.

Numbers 6:22-27; Galatians 4:4-7; Luke 2:16-21

 

Happy New Year! Happy World Day of Peace! Happy Solemnity of Mary, Mother of God, though I’m not sure that last one is actually a thing people say. Though every new day, hour, minute, breath gives us an opportunity to lean into possibilities, there are particular times when we turn toward reflection and action so that we may live into our values more deeply and more expansively; the new year is one of those times.

I have been sitting with today’s readings and also Pope Francis’ message for World Day of Peace, whose theme is No one can be saved alone. Combatting Covid-19 together, embarking together on paths of peace. I wonder what it means to receive God’s peace, to be adopted heirs of God, to honor Mary, Mother God, and how these ideas might guide us together on paths of peace.

Considering these questions, I can’t help but think of Lamont Collins, founder and CEO of Roots 101 African American Museum. If you know Lamont or have heard him speak, you’ve probably heard his invitation to become a better ancestor. If you ask Lamont how he’s doing, his consistent answer is, “I’m blessed.”

 

As heirs of God, we receive God’s blessings, peace, and freedom. As heirs of other flawed humans, we’ve inherited, as Pope Francis writes, “the fractures in our social and economic order that the pandemic exposed, and the contradictions and inequalities that it brought to the fore.” He notes that the pandemic “exposed any number of forms of fragility.” That fragility reminds me of Frida Kahlo’s words: “not fragile like a flower, fragile like a bomb.” The ongoing breakdown of unwieldy systems threatens all of us, but it is already harming and will continue to harm most explosively those whose support systems- whether the physical structures of a frail body or unstable shelter or the emotional, mental, and spiritual structures of fractured community- are already weak and fragile.

Pope Francis writes that “the greatest lesson we learned from Covid-19 was the realization that we all need one another. That our greatest and yet most fragile treasure is our shared humanity as brothers and sisters, children of God. And that none of us can be saved alone. Consequently, we urgently need to join together in seeking and promoting the universal values that can guide the growth of this human fraternity.” While I believe that we sometimes recognize our shared humanity as a treasure, sometimes we also retreat from the reality of interconnection, recoil from the idea that all people are beloved children of God, and reject opportunities to work together across lines of difference. Instead we create silos in which we protect the well-being of only people we like or only like-minded people, identifiers that may change according to our whims. 

If we focus on becoming better ancestors, not knowing who or how many descendants will follow us, we are invited to embrace the legacy of God’s love and move from a posture of collective humility and responsibility, asking ourselves, “What do we want to pass on to the generations that follow us?”

Mary M. McGlone writes: “Luke's Gospel emphasizes that the birth of Christ came to pass because Mary identified herself as the servant of the Lord who, like her son, made it her life's goal that God's will be done through her. The birth of Christ, God's personal incarnation in history, took place through Mary's collaboration. She made herself available for God to do what God could not do without her. This brings us to two of Christianity's most radical claims. First, the fact that God depended on Mary for the Incarnation reveals that God's power is vulnerable love that has nothing to do with domination. More radically, Mary is not unique: Jesus himself said, ‘My mother and my brothers are those who hear the word of God and act on it’ (Luke 8:21). Thus, as Meister Eckhart explained 700 years ago, ‘We are all meant to be mothers of God.’” If we are meant to be not just heirs of God, but also mothers of God, and, thereby, ancestors to God’s birth and rebirth beyond us, “we must,” as Pope Francis writes, “think in terms of the common good, recognizing that we belong to a greater community... We cannot continue to focus simply on preserving ourselves; rather, the time has come for all of us to endeavour to heal our society and our planet, to lay the foundations for a more just and peaceful world, and to commit ourselves seriously to pursuing a good that is truly common.”

Mary McGlone writes that “The Solemnity of Mary, the Mother of God, invites us to marvel at the God who comes to us in loving vulnerability and dependence.” Mary, Mother of God, said yes to the vulnerable uncertainty of parenting.

On this World Day of Peace and day honoring Mary, we, too, are called to loving vulnerability and the uncertainty of parenting a world in evolution. We are called to expose with care how and where we and our systems are fragile. We are also called to recognize how and where we have inherited blessing, peace, and freedom. With this awareness we can tend to the places most likely to break and protect those most likely to be harmed in the breaking. We can practice interdependence, appreciating those who care for the fragility within us, allowing our vulnerability to connect us rather than separate us. Together may we co-create for our contemporaries and descendants a world of greater justice, peace, and love, a world that is whole and whose holiness is common, shared, and accessible to all.

Rest

Dear friends, 

Recently I had been doing some bargaining with my body. It went something like this: 'We just have this event to do and then we'll rest. Oh, wait, I mean after this event and that other thing. No, after this event, that other thing, and also that other other thing, then we'll rest." Just before I got COVID, it was "Just stay well enough to get through the Holiday Bazaar and then we'll get some rest." I was worn down and I did actually have true down time scheduled, but it was a little too late. My body decided it was time to stop. 

This year has sometimes felt like riding a roller coaster in the midst of an earthquake- fast and whipping me around in both expected and unexpected ways. I signed up for the roller coaster; I didn't know the ground would be shifting beneath the ride. Using my Cards for Remembering, even after lots of shuffling, I regularly pull the card, "I listen to my body and SLOW DOWN when she asks me to." However, I didn't listen to my body and slow down nearly as often as the cards invited me to. And so finally my body said, "ENOUGH!" I have been moving slowly ever since. I have also been asking for support. These are steps toward restoration. 

Thankfully, I generally sleep well. But rest isn't just about sleep. Sleep is certainly one form of rest, a type of physical rest that my cats Ralphie (pictured above) and Patty Petunia have mastered. Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith says that beyond physical rest (which can also take the form of active physical rest like yoga) there are 6 other types of rest we need: mental, sensory, creative, emotional, and spiritual. 

There are periods in my life when I practice rest and restoration well. This most often happens when I have structures and routines in place; it's already built into my life. During 2022 some of the structures I had built for myself shifted or dissolved. Feeling the difference and recognizing how important those structures are, I've been considering how and with whom I'd like to rebuild them. Preparing for tonight's Mapping Life workshop gave me time to reflect, dream, and plan, to prepare the internal structure. The building- external work-  will follow.

This is the work of winter: slowing down, going inward, resting, and preparing for whatever may wish to move through my more-rested and capable self.    

What about you?

Are you slowing down to the pace of winter?

What kinds of rest are you needing?

How are you tending to yourself? 

I'd love to know. 

The Dark, Too, Blooms and Sings

Dear friends, 

Today is Winter Solstice, which marks the official transition from autumn to winter. Today is the shortest day and longest night of the year. An apt time to think about darkness. 

A few days ago I was given the "gift" of COVID, of slowing down nearly to a stop, just after setting up for another Holiday Bazaar for the weekend. This meant not participating in the Bazaar myself, finding people to be at my table for the first day and missing the second. Thankfully, the worst of the sickness could have been much worse and it passed quickly- I am on the mend. This unplanned pause, which happened not long after a very different leap in the dark, has given me time to reflect. 

Wendell Berry writes:
To go in the dark with a light is to know the light.
To know the dark, go dark. Go without sight,
and find that the dark, too, blooms and sings,

and is traveled by dark feet and dark wings. 

 

On this longest night we are invited to know the dark,
to recognize its mystery and fertility,
to savor it around us and within us,
to accept its invitation

to slow down,

to be still,

and to listen for its song.  

What do you hear? 

Just as love lives in light,
love lives in darkness.  
Love lives. 

Knowing that we often discount the gifts of darkness, the presence of love in darkness, I offer these questions:


What has darkness taught you about love? 

What does your own darkness teach you about love? 

How do you love the darkness within and outside of you?  

These are questions I am asking myself as as I ask you. I'd love to know what you discover. Perhaps I'll share my own answers, too. 


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If you're wanting to reflect on the darkness and light of the last year, consciously transition to the new year, and do so with others, I hope you'll join me on December 30 for Mapping Life: Moving from 2022 to 2023. Find more information about it and 2023 classes here

If you're still looking for unique gifts, I hope you'll consider gift certificates for Heart Portraits and Sketches, Reiki, and Readings for Remembering. Every session is truly one of a kind. Gift certificates are 10% off through this Saturday, December 24th. Prices will be going up in January, so now is a good time to buy for others or yourself for next year. With missing the Holiday Bazaar, I brought back my 25% off Cards for Remembering sale, also through Saturday. 

Whether any of the above speak to you or not, I wish you well on this shortest day and longest night and hope that you encounter the gifts and the love in the darkness.

With curiosity and care, 
Cory